This book is titled – Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men. It was written by Lundy Bancroft and you can find it on Amazon.com. If you are in a bad relationship and are unsure of whether it is considered normal or not, or if you know you are in an abusive relationship and need inspiration to get out, this is the book for you! Please read this book and recommend it to anyone you feel may be in trouble. This book explains many abusive personalities and provides insight into the minds of those abusive men/women. It is important to understand this in order to determine whether you can, or should, get out and move on with your life. This book literally saved my life and I applaud the author for being able to understand and explain the extremely complex minds of an abuser. I give this book an exemplary 5 stars!!